Looking at and Touching the Wife’s Private Part during Hayd
Question
What is [the ruling on] looking at and touching what is below the navel, as well as the private parts, of one’s wife while she is in the state of hayd?
Answer
In al-Durr al-Mukhtar it says: [ar]وَهَلْ يَحِلُّ النَّظَرُ وَمُبَاشَرَتُهَا لَهُ؟ فِيهِ تَرَدُّدٌ[/ar] “Is looking [at her] permissible, and her touching him? There is hesitation (taraddud) about it.” In al-Shami it says: [ar]أَيْ بِشَهْوَةٍ، وَهَذَا كَالِاسْتِثْنَاءِ مِنْ عُمُومِ حِلِّ مَا عَدَا الْقُرْبَانَ، وَأَصْلُ التَّرَدُّدِ لِصَاحِبِ الْبَحْرِ، حَيْثُ ذَكَرَ أَنَّ…
Source: Fatawa Mahmudiyya
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